Time is short

I went back to my parent's place yesterday and I realize that time isn't infinite. My father is old and he gave both me and my sister some money. He said the following: This is the money for buying a place to bury me when I passed away. When I heard this, I start crying.

I know that if I ever want to give back to my parents, I have to act fast now. Time is the essence. How can I use my talents to give to million of others and at the same time give back to my love ones?

Time

Time is the essence.

How can I provide immense value for 10 million people in 1 month?
I will need to create something from scratch that matches all my spots (talents).

"I'm no genious. I'm smart in spots and I stay around those spots"
- Thomas Watson Sr.

Message Board

Two days ago, I posted a message on the message board regarding unsatisfied experience with a company, X. The company later on called me at home to listen to my point of view. This is incredible.

This is incredible because I realize that one of my talents is to write a short paragraph that can sometimes make people jump or persuade others. I can also use MSN Live Messenger and help to resolve issues for others. It's one of my talent and I intend to use it to provide immense values for my love ones. How am I going to do it?

Anyone know the kinds of career that help to resolve people's issues on line with either the message board or MSN live messenger? I know that I have the incredible ability to convince others online and I intend to use it to provide immense values for my love ones and million of people.

Give me the opportunity and I'll make it shine.

Goal

I listened to a tape yesterday.

In the tape, it points out the importance of focus on the goal. Each morning, read the goal statement. I believe in it. Each morning, I'll start reading the mission of my life: providing immense value for my love ones and 10 million others. Use talent, talent and talent to fulfill my goal.

Warren's and Charles's quote

" If we have a strength, it is in recognizing when we are operating well within our circle of competence and when we are approaching the perimeter."
- Warren Buffett

"If you have competence, you pretty much know its boundaries already. To ask the question [of whether you are past the boundary] is to answer it".
- Charles Munger (Warren Buffett's partner)

"I'm no genius. I'm smart in spots, and I stay around those spots."
- Thomas Watson Sr.

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How do I add values to my love ones today?
I add immense value to my love ones by knowing my spots and stay around those spots.

pattern vs. knowledge

In the interview, people hire you because of

a. your extensive knowledge
b. your personality matches the interviewer

After this many interviews, I'll start to say (b). In the interview, if the personality matches, the interviewer will always say, "he/she can do it". If the personality doesn't match, the interviewer will always give an excuses, "oh, he/she is too sharp for this job position. This job position requires more human interaction skill." You might be wondering why I even bring up this topic. Well, I have interviewed for 6 job positions. The previous 5 job positions has turned me down. On the 6th job position, the personality seems to click and I got the job. I know, I know. Many of you will say that my knowledge for the 6th job interview matches what the interviewer wants. Well, I apply for similar positions for all 6 jobs.

Well adios.

Moving forward with honor

Hug my child

My baby wakes me up today. He call Dad Dad and smile at me. I give him a hug and I feel so wonderful. I enjoy every moment that my baby call me Dad Dad. I enjoy every moment with my baby. I do WEIT(what ever it take) to add value for my kid.

How can I add value for my love ones today and at this moment?

Know myself

Getting back to my passion and talent.

I have been reading turning frog into a princess for 2 months ago. Yesterday, I decided to read this book again. Why do I want to read it? This book has helped me tremendously in communicating with both people and myself.

When I have a self talk, sometimes I like to fight with myself. This is not beneficial at all. When 2 voices fight, the conflict within myself seems to get bigger. I would like to try to say thank you to my inner voice because each voice provide me the benefit. I intend to do 2 things. I would like to say thank you to them. Write it down on those 2 voices. I ask myself how can I keep both benefits?

Both

Yesterday, a friend offers a side job that might give me extra finance in my family. He also asks me a question. Is time with the family more important than the money or vice versa. I thought for a while and I told him both. At my current stage, both time with the family and finance are important.

How can I have both? My goal is to have immense time with my family, give back to my parents and have abundant finance so I can accomplish all if the above. Everyday I'll ask me the question.

How can I have enormous amount of time with my family, give back to my parents, have an abundant finance, to do what I love to do and do it well, have good health, have positive mental altitude and have fun doing it?

What can I do today, this moment that will add immense value to my family?

Am I?

Am I adding value to my love ones with what I am doing right now?
Am I adding value to my love ones with my habit?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the direction that I am going?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the health that I have?
Am I adding value to my love ones with my thinking?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of my talent?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of my time?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of the money?


I am willing to do anything and everything to add immense value for my love ones.

- David Shen

smile

value value value
I provide immense value to my love ones
power power power
I use all the power in the world for my love ones
move move move
I move forward with lightning speed
give give give
I give my talents to billion of others
smile smile smile
I smile with big grin to accomplish all of the above

- David Shen

I know I can

How do I add immense values to my love ones?

I add immense value to my love ones by knowing that I add value in each action that I take.
I add immense value to my love ones by knowing that today will give me an opportunity to give back to my parents and to provide a better environment for both my wife and child.

happy

Run child run
run to pa pa

smile child smile
calling Dad Dad

give me a big Teddy bear hug,
happy happy here I come.

- David Shen

Happy

Run child run

run to pa pa



smile child smile

calling Dad Dad



give me a big Teddy bear hug,

happy happy here I come.

- David Shen

Talent

Talent talent here I come,
I'll give you all I got,
going forward with all my might,
provide value for my love ones.

- David Shen

Five Steps to Self-Confidence

1. I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose in life; therefore, I demand of myself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment, and I here and now promise to render such action.

2. I realize the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves in outward, physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality; therefore, I will concentrate my thoughts for thirty minutes daily, upon the task of thinking of the person I intend to become, thereby creating in my mind a clear mental picture.

3. I know through the principle of autosuggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the object back of it; therefore, I will devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of self-confidence.

4. I have clearly written down a description of my definite chief aim in life, and I will never stop trying, until I shall have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.

5. I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice; there-fore I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. I will succeed by attracting to myself the forces I wish to use, and the cooperation of other people. I will induce others to serve me, because of my willingness to serve others. I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism by developing love for all humanity, because I know that negative attitude toward others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me because I will believe in them and in myself. I will sign my name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day, with full faith that it will gradually influence my thoughts and actions so that I will become a self-reliant, and successful person.

Smile

What can I do today that add immense value to my love ones and give back to my Dad that I can smile incessantly 20 years later?

Category

Which category am I 1st in?

In life, there are different ways of providing immense result to others. The quickest way to provide an immense result to others is to find the category that I am the 1st in. In college, Bill Gates gives up on math because he realize that he's not the 1st in math. The category that I am 1st in is my talent. I can do only 20% of effort and get 4000% result. I can use this talent to help billion of others.

Family

How do I add immense value to my love ones today?

What can I experiment today that can add immense value to my love ones today?
Take risk.

Ability

Every day I add immense value to my love ones and billion of others.

I see the strength in each person and I admire their strength.I see the strength in my love ones and I intend to excel their strength 10 million times.In order to provide immense value to my loves ones, I will do what ever it takes to excel my talent to 1 billion times. What can I do today to help me achieve this goal? What can I do today to add immense value to my love ones?

To my love ones:

I want to do what ever it takes to add immense value. Every times when I hug my baby I know that I have the courage to fly with unlimited possibility. With God's permission and blessing, I intend to do what ever it takes to strengthen my ability. With my unlimited ability, I can provide immense value to my love ones and billion of others. I intend to do what ever it takes to fulfill my promise to add immense value to my love ones. Power, power, power, Ability, ability, ability, Experiment, experiment, experiment. I promise to do what ever it takes to add value to my love ones.

Value

I am here for my love ones. How can I add immense value to my love ones today, tomorrow and the future.

I add value to my love ones by being a superman. I will be able to do anything and everything for my love ones. I would like to be able to calm down my child to go to sleep but at the same time I will be able to fight like a lion for my love ones. I can even become diplomatic. This is a goal that I am going to move forward to.

I always ask myself:
How can I add immense value to my love ones?
How can I have time, have a good health, have a positive mental altitude and have abundance finance so I can always spend time with good health, move forward with honor and help others with love for my dear love ones.

I do WEIT(what ever it takes) to reach this goal. Give me POWER, POWER, POWER.

Experimentation

How do I add immense value to my love ones?

I add immense value to my love ones by experimenting. When I become bigger, better and add values to billion of people, I also add values to my love ones.

I run, I walk, I cry, I laugh
I add value to my love ones.

I move forward with infinite power
I add value to my love ones.

- David Shen

Hair cut

How do I add immense value to my love ones?

I am able to add immense value to my love ones by get a hair cut before the interview. It might sound funny at a time but it's true. Having a hair cut will accomplish 2 purposes. The 1st purpose is that I look visually better having a hair cut. The interviewer also like a person with a good professional hair cut. The 2nd purpose is that it boost my self confidence. After I look at myself in the mirror with a professional haircut, I feel more confident. Before the hair cut, I tend to have a lot of feeling. Having a lot of feeling is good for helping others and poetry writing; however, it's not good for any business meeting including the interview. In any kinds of business meeting, it's preferable to have a sharp eyes, to analyze the situation in the room and to communicate to people in the room with confidence. Having a hair cut will definitely help to accomplish this particular task.

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my dear child,

It seems a bit strange but I have to emphasize on the behavior. Brushing teeth, washing face and having hair cut regularly. It changes the emotion at the moment and helps to see things more clearly. This kinds of little changes helps to improve my life. It gives me a positive mental altitude. I would like to pass this knowledge to you.

Love

Love for my family

How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love ones by moving forward with honor.

How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by spending time with my love one, having a good health, having a positive mental altitude and having financial abundance.

How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by doing what I love doing and do it really well.

How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by looking at the photos and listen to their sound and asks myself the question.

How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love ones by hugging my loves ones and ask myself the best way to accomplish all of the goal above.

- David Shen

Baby fun

Mommy, mommy here I come
Play with mommy fun, fun, fun
Give, give milk to me
I just like to having fun

- David Shen

Baby

A little baby is really fun
Calling dad dad with open arm
Sleeping like a teddy bear
A little baby is really fun.

- David Shen

Grateful

This is all I got,
Having a family is really fun,
Thank you thank you for all I got,
Once a year anniversary is a lot of fun.

- David Shen

Strong

I am here for my love ones.

I am thankful to have a wife who is able to protect my family. I am thanksful that she knows the thinking pattern of a particular group of people.

I intend to be the BIGGEST and STRONGEST person in the world. I am going to do what ever it takes to know and understand this particular group of people. These group of people belong to the creative thinking pattern with high intonation and have a big facial expression.

This is the time to protect my love ones. I want to know the exact thinking pattern so I am able to protect my love ones and myself.

Dad, my dear wife and my dear child, give me the power to protect the family, to provide the immense value for my love ones, to give time, health, positive mental altitude and abundant finance for my love ones.

Dad, when I were young, you were stand strong for the family, provide the abundant finance and time for the family. I promise that I will do the same for my family. In God's name, I promise.

Child

I am here for my child,
Going forward with all my might,
Stand strong with eagle eye,
I am here for my child.

- David Shen

Life

Value, value, value
I bring value to my love ones

Love, love, love
I love my child with infinite fun

Grateful, grateful, grateful
I am grateful to what I have

Run, run, run
I run to tomorrow with open arm.

- David Shen

Experiment

How do I add immense value for my love ones?

I add immense value for my love ones by experimenting, experimenting and experimenting. I jump over the safety line and walk for a 100 feet. It's a new universe out there. There are fresh flowers, beautiful houses, a green golf course and the English windmill. Sitting on the rock and looking over this incredible world, I am totally glad and happy.

The influence

How do I add value to my love ones? I add value to my love ones by knowing exactly the environment that will give him a boost and the people that he will instantly like. I would like to pass the information to him when he becomes a bit older.

I didn't realize this at first but realize that I am going to think about how I am going to present both my facial expression and my body language to my child. I want to know what facial expression and body language would benefit this child dramatically.

I have never realize that facial expression can give my child the excitement to move forward with honor. This is a tool that I would like to use it wisely.

Target, Target, Target

How can I provide immense value to my love ones?

I focus on providing the health, the time, the positive mental altitude and abundant finance. Each of the these criteria require focus, focus and focus.

Every time when I have a negative thought, I instantly realized that my child is looking at me and learns from me. This is a LOSE LOSE situation. If it only happens to myself, I don't really mind. However, if the negative thought impacts my child, I WON'T ALLOW my negative thought impact my child mentally, health and financially.

The negative thought also impacts my action. I plan to give back to my parents. If the negative thought impacts my action which impacts the result, there's no room in myself to have this negative feeling.

I know exactly what I need to do to provide value for my family. I will move forward with speed and accuracy.

Value, value, value

How can I add immense value to my love ones today, tomorrow and the future?

The best way to add value for my love one is doing what I love to do, do it well, spend an abundant time with them, have a good health, have a positive mental altitude and have a financial abundance.

What is the best way to achieve it? The best way to achieve it is to

1. Read my mission statement twice a day
2. Follow my talent
3. Experiment 6 times by the end of the year
4. Move forward with honor

May God bless my goal and give me the courage and blessing to move forward with honor.

Bonding

I am going to take a business trip for one day and I already miss my baby to call me dad, dad. My wife on the other hand wants the baby to call her mommy because the baby hasn't called mommy for 2 weeks. My wife is thinking that after a day of my business trip, the baby will call mommy instead of dad.

I never understand the psychology of bonding. I start to understand that the most important factor is time. The more time I spend with the baby, the better the relationship is going to be.

Here is the question for myself today?
1. How can I add values for my love ones?
2. How can I have immense time for my love ones, to do what I love to do and do it well, provide financial abundance for my family and have a positive mental altitude?

Hero

I like my heros a lot and each of them have strength that I want to model. I acknowledge their weakness and move on to their strength. Here are the strength from my hero.

Warren Buffet - He's very honest. He has fun doing what he love to do and he does it well. He contribute 37 billion dollars to Gates foundation.
Bill Gates - He has a vision and he makes it happen. He contribute billions of dollars to help the needy.
Steve Jobs - He loves to make beautiful object e.g. animation, iPod, iPhone and Apple Macintosh.
Dad - He always protect our family. He gave us the time, the financial abundance and the confidence for the entire family to move forward.

Each of them use their talents (instinct) to the best of their ability. They not only makes themself happy but in the process contribute to the human kinds. I would like to be one of them in the near future.

Follow your instinct

Instinct is the bridge between you and your success.

I was thinking yesterday about Bill Gates and Steve Jobs. What do they have in common? They both follow their instinct. Steve Jobs follow his instinct by designing the beautiful object includes iPhone, iPod, animation and Apple Macintosh. Bill Gates follow his instinct by creating a great software called Windows and put the software in every computer.

I believe each of us know exactly what our instincts are . A lot of times, we tend to ignore our instinct and do something that we don't particularly enjoy. It might be ok in the short run. In the long run, it's a lose and lose situation. We lose our heart and become pessimistic. Our children lose because our action impacts their thinking. In order to provide infinite values to our love ones and billion of others, follow your instinct is the only way to go.

Habit

Have you notice how some people like to wash their face, brush their teeth, shave their bear, brush their hair every morning while others just don't do anything? I never pay attention until I realize that it bring value to myself and my love ones.

Why do I say that? If you wash your face and brush your hair, you will soon realize that your thinking pattern is completely change after doing it. If I am in a depressed mode, I will be instantly go into a positive mode. If I am a bit sleepy and I need to go to a meeting, washing my face would definitely give me an edge in the meeting.

Warren Buffet says the following:
“Chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.”

I never exactly understand what he means until yesterday. Having a positive habit will give me power in myself and my family. I believe in it.

Criteria to add values

How can I have time with you, provide you with an abundant finance, have fun doing what I love to do and doing it well? I know only if I have fun doing what I love doing and doing it well. I will be able to provide my love ones with infinite abundant time, health, finance and positive mental altitude.