Friends

My dear child,

What kinds of people do you like most? Have you ever thought about it? Both your mom and I would like you to give some thought about it.

Do you like their belief? Do you like their habit? Do you like their intonation? Do you like their feeling? Do you like their vision? If you have a hero, what specifically do you like about them?

It think it's critical to know these important factors. Once you analyze a bit about them, you have a deeper understanding of your friends. You will be able to connect with them at a deeper level. You know their strength and you walk around their weakness. It would bring you happiness to yourself. On the other hand, if you disagree with his/her belief or their bad habits seems to have negative influence on you, you might want to reconsider about this friend. If you are bigger than them mentally and you think it's worth a shot, you can even try to persuade them to change to a new belief or a new habit. If you're not able to change their belief/habit, I recommend you to run and keep a good distance from this person. You're very likely to be impacted by his belief or habit if you are not able to influence him.

I also recommend you to have a notepad so you can write down your thought. Trust your instinct. Sometimes when I look at a person and I don't like them. I don't know why. However, if those people continue to talk to me for a period of time, my thinking pattern seems to change and I start to like them. A few years later, I look down at my note about my thought when I first meet those people, I am amazed at the accuracy of my instinct.

Love

Daddy