Monday, December 31, 2007
talent
I see the talents in my dad.
I see the talents in my friends.
I see the talents in every one.
- David Shen
Sunday, December 30, 2007
Run for a better life
If pattern doesn't match, RUN.
I didn't realize this at first. This applies almost to everything. I think most people prefer a person who is like him. If my manager prefers a person who is similar to him and I have different opinion or talent, I better run for other position because the chance of appreciation or promotion is minimum.
When choosing a major/career, it's the same thing. If other people spend 5 minutes to study a course or finish a homework, yet it takes you 2 days to do it. You know as well as I do this is NOT your talent. Run for another major.
In life, each person has a talent or instinct or personality. If this pattern doesn't match your career or your boss, RUN.
A turning point
I flee with fright
now comes the time
to be back with a fight
I recite every night
I will be back with pride
I will be home alright
The thought gives me incredible high
I cross my finger and sit tight
This is the best chance to be back
I'll move forward with all my might
so I can be with my family pack
I thought about this all night
with cigar and sprite
in the morning I decide to
start the journey with delight
- David Shen
Friday, December 28, 2007
My promise
I will find a way
no matter what come my way
I am going all the way
Dad Dad
I provide value to the end
The trail might be wind and bend
My promise will never bend
Dad Dad
I take action each day
Sometimes it might be a rainy day
I deliver I smile till the last day
- David Shen
Monday, December 24, 2007
Family
My family are my love.
I live my life with love.
I go forward with all my love.
- David Shen
Vision
- Provers. 29:18
Seeing the future with crystal clear picture and know that each step you take will move you to add value. This is the happiest moment of my life.
- David Shen
Climb high
Your goal the key; Your aim the star
- Inscription at Williams college
Climb high; Climb far
You provide immense value to your love ones only if you are on the star
- David Shen
Value added
Get the result back and use it to provide value to your love ones (time, health, positivie mental altitude and money) and to build the best hospital in the United States.
- David Shen
Value
- Jim Rohn
Health, time with family, positive mental altitude and money are all crucial in my life.
When I have good health, I can provide more value to my family.
When I spend time with family, I feel happier.
When I have positive mental altitude, I move forward with incredible speed.
When I have money, I can be with my parents any time I want.
- David Shen
Sunday, December 23, 2007
This is the way
ask myself every night
how can I provide value to my family and
smile with delight
I stare at the horizon and
know that it's right
to provide talent to my love ones and
fly to incredible height
- David Shen
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Friday, December 21, 2007
Thursday, December 20, 2007
Success
- Jim Rohn
Find out the thing that you spend only 20% energy yet you can get 4000% result. This is your talent.
- David Shen
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Adding value to my love ones
How do I provide value to my love ones?
Answer: I provide value to my love one by relationship, health, positive mental altitude and finance.
Everything I do, I ask if I am adding value to my love ones?
If I do, I add points.
If I don't, then I move on.
- David Shen
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Faith
I have faith in the infinite
I have faith in my ability to give
- David Shen
Monday, December 17, 2007
Try again
I try again
I try again
until the day I fulfill my promise, my duty
until the day I smile and know for sure
that I won't have any regret pain.
- David Shen
Sunday, December 16, 2007
passion and talent
this is the rule
Learn to figure them out
life would be cool
not figuring them out
life would be poor
This is your life
please be aware of this rule
- David Shen
Saturday, December 15, 2007
Rule
follow others will be poor
follow your own is cool
ask others to follow yours is cruel
Follow this golden rule
you'll go far with your fuel
igonre this golden rule
you'll stay in the same place drool.
- David Shen
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Life promise
That's what I did
I am now a man and
I plan with everything I can
I am the leading man
I follow my game plan
I plan to become rich man
so I can contribute to billion man
I am a common man
with a grand game plan
I do whatever I can
My attention span is on the master plan
I swear
I will
do what it takes until
my promise is fulfilled.
- David Shen
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
speed of light
I know exactly how to get it
I am a rider
I move with the speed of light
I am a giant
I stare at the amazing sunlight
This is my life
I know for sure this's right
- David Shen
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
My life
who wants to do really well
I plan my life with large scale
and I pay attention to small detail
sometimes the pace’s like garden snail
yet my goal would never derail
I continue to walk on my goal trail
because one day I will prevail
- David Shen
Becoming
"The most important question to ask on the job is not, What am I getting?
The most important question is, What am I becoming?"
- Jim Rohn
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
Consistency
keeps the doctor away
a chocolate a day
makes the doctor dismays
- david shen
Moving forward
to get out of the jail
change the direction of the sail
to go through life prevail
- david shen
Monday, December 3, 2007
memory
and memory appears in my brain
and I couldn't help myself
and my face starts to rain
- david shen
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Monday, November 26, 2007
My talent
One day I decide to explore my talents any where
I search the world all over and getting no where
Then, I realize my talent is within right here.
- david shen
Friday, November 23, 2007
Our mother land
Imagine a world where everyone contribute his talent
Imagine a world where the civilization move in a lightning speed
Imagine this world here call earth.
- david shen
Better
- Jim Rohn
Every day every way I am getting better
Well, my daddy left home when I was three,
and he didn't leave much to Ma and me,
just this old guitar and a bottle of booze.
Now I don't blame him because he run and hid,
but the meanest thing that he ever did was
before he left he went and named me Sue.
Well, he must have thought it was quite a joke,
and it got lots of laughs from a lot of folks,
it seems I had to fight my whole life through.
Some gal would giggle and I'd get red
and some guy would laugh and I'd bust his head,
I tell you, life ain't easy for a boy named Sue.
Well, I grew up quick and I grew up mean.
My fist got hard and my wits got keen.
Roamed from town to town to hide my shame,
but I made me a vow to the moon and the stars,
I'd search the honky tonks and bars and kill
that man that gave me that awful name.
But it was Gatlinburg in mid July and I had
just hit town and my throat was dry.
I'd thought i'd stop and have myself a brew.
At an old saloon in a street of mud
and at a table dealing stud sat the dirty,
mangy dog that named me Sue.
Well, I knew that snake was my own sweet dad
from a worn-out picture that my mother had
and I knew the scar on his cheek and his evil eye.
He was big and bent and gray and old
and I looked at him and my blood ran cold,
and I said, "My name is Sue. How do you do?
Now you're gonna die." Yeah, that's what I told him.
Well, I hit him right between the eyes and he went down
but to my surprise he came up with a knife
and cut off a piece of my ear. But I busted a chair
right across his teeth. And we crashed through
the wall and into the street kicking and a-gouging
in the mud and the blood and the beer.
I tell you I've fought tougher men but I really can't remember when.
He kicked like a mule and bit like a crocodile.
I heard him laughin' and then I heard him cussin',
he went for his gun and I pulled mine first.
He stood there looking at me and I saw him smile.
And he said, "Son, this world is rough and if
a man's gonna make it, he's gotta be tough
and I knew I wouldn't be there to help you along.
So I gave you that name and I said 'Goodbye'.
I knew you'd have to get tough or die. And it's
that name that helped to make you strong."
Yeah, he said, "Now you have just fought one
helluva fight, and I know you hate me and you've
got the right to kill me now and I wouldn't blame you
if you do. But you ought to thank me
before I die for the gravel in your guts and the spit
in your eye because I'm the nut that named you Sue."
Yeah, what could I do? What could I do?
I got all choked up and I threw down my gun,
called him pa and he called me a son,
and I came away with a different point of view
and I think about him now and then.
Every time I tried, every time I win and if I
ever have a son I think I am gonna name him
Bill or George - anything but Sue.
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Result
- Benjamin Disraeli
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Make it happen
To hope is not to dream . . . but to turn dreams into reality.
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Purpose
responsible, honorable, compassionate.
It is, above all, to matter: to count,
to stand for something, to have made
some difference that you lived at all.
- Leo Rosten
Friday, November 16, 2007
Fulfill your mission
to shine
You are here on this earth
to give
You are here on this earth
to fulfill your destiny
- david shen
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Love my family
to provide value to my love ones
To provide value to my love ones is
to give talents to my love ones and others
To provide value to my love ones is
to combine talents with others and shine the universe.
- david shen
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
If you think you are beaten, you are
If you think you dare not, you don’t
If you like to win, but you think you can’t,
It is almost certain you won’t.
If you think you’ll lose, you’re lost,
For out of the world we find,
Success begins with a fellow’s will
It’s all in the state of mind.
If you think you are outclasses, you are,
You’ve got to think high to rise,
You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize
Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man
But soon or late the man who wins
Is the man WHO THINKS HE CAN!
- think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill
Why not
"what-if?" Let your what-if become
"why-not?" Then you're on your way.
Why not, when life is so short, and
we are such grand people?
- Larsen & Hegarty
Talent
I believe one of the reason that Andrew Carnegie becomes so successful is that he knows the people with the talent. He seems to see other's talent even before they know themselves. He ask Napoleon Hill to pass the philosophy of sucess and Napolean Hill has done a wonderful job.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Right and wrong
Well, my understanding is that in the 1st scenario. The house owner in distress wants to sell a house quick. Since there are so many houses are on the market, one can negotiate with the house owner and get a really cheap price. I would rather give the owner a fair market price than negotiate with a cheaper price when they are emotionally distressed.
In the 2nd scenarios, the house owner couldn't pay for the tax. The county will give a 2 year grace period for the house owner. Another person can pay for the delinquent tax to the county for those 2 periods with high interest. By the end of those 2 years, the person can request to get the house to be foreclosure because the money wasn't paid. Well, I think that if it's a purely business deal, it makes sense. However, from the moral point of view, when some people are in distressed and couldn't paid for the tax, one goes in and ask for foreclosure. I don't know if it's a right thing to do. Well, I guess I have to find another career to improve my finance.
Adios
Friday, November 9, 2007
Listening
Reach for the shiny star
with determination
Reach for a shiny star
with faith
Reach for a shiny star
with action
Reach for a shiny star
with persistence
Reach for a shiny star
with cooperation
Reach for a shiny star
with a must have reason
- david shen
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Good questions to move forward
Here it is:
1. What is great about this problem?
2. What is not perfect yet?
3. What am I willing to do to make the way I want it?
4. What am I willing no longer to do to make the way I want it?
5. How can I enjoy the process while I do what is necessary to make it the way I want it?
Whenever I encounter an issue that I feel desperate, frustrated or depressed, I'll ask the above questions. This is a life and death question because it makes everything so much clear. I appreciate his effort in providing value.
Well, adios
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Rise to unlimited heights
Faith is the only know antidote for failure
- Napoleon Hill
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Shiny Star
- Salle Merrill Redfield
The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift of life is yours; it is an amazing journey; and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.
- Dan Zadra
Monday, November 5, 2007
I am there
I am there
I am one hundred percent there
I look up the sky
I look at the lake
I stare into the infinity
I achieve my goal
I achieve my life
I achieve my destiny
Here I am
Here I am
Here I am the blessing soul
I thank you
I appreciate
I am grateful for what I have
- david shen
Grateful
I am grateful to have a terrific wife.
I am grateful to have a cute baby.
I am grateful to have a great Dad and Mom.
Now, it's time to give.
Sunday, November 4, 2007
To my child
every day in our life
With you being in my side
everything is possible
- david shen
Reach for the star
Your goal the sky; Your aim the star
- Inscription at Williams College
Quote from Henry Ford
- Henry Ford
Saturday, November 3, 2007
Grandma's rule
If the facts don't hang together on a latticework of theory, you don't have them in a usable form.
- Charlie's Munger
Understand the rule and know how to use it
- david shen
I totally agree with the above statement. If you want to figure out your talent, you find the category that you can grasp the rule easily and have fun playing with this talent. Bill Gates is a great business man because he doesn't follow the isolated facts, he learn the rule quickly and play with it.
Friday, November 2, 2007
The shining star
to move forward with passion
to move forward with talent
to move forward with focus
We're in this world
to shine
to give light to others
to provide immense value to our love ones
We're in this world
to reach our destiny with a smile and happy tears in our eyes
- david shen
I know I can
I can deliver it
I know I can
I can provide
I know I can
I can do it
I know I can
I can reach it
- david shen
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Here on earth
I know why I am here
I know where I am going
I know exactly the way to get there
I have faith in myself
I have faith in the infinite
This is my destiny
- david shen
The path to immortality
The path to immortality is to
provide the best quality of yourself to your love ones and million of others
The path to immortality is to
know exactly what you’re great at and provide your talents to million of others
Some people donate time, others donate money.
I donate poetry.
This is my path to immortality
- david shen
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
This is the day
This is the day I make my life counts
This is the day
This is the day I shout from the mountain top
This is the day
This is the day I cry with joy
This is the day
This is the day I give back to my Dad
- david shen
I know myself
I know where I am going
I know myself
I know the reason that I am going
I know myself
I know the method to get there
I know myself
I know I have faith in myself and in the infinite
I know myself
I know this is my destiny
- david shen
move forward
I move forward with honor
I move forward
I move forward with intensity
I move forward
I move forward with force
I move forward
I move forward with love
I move forward
I move forward with burning desire
- david shen
Know
I can make my Dad proud
I know I can
I can make my son proud
I know I can
I can use my talent to accomplish my mission
I know I can
I can provide value to my love ones
I know I can
I can provide value to million of others
I know I can
I can do it.
- david shen
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Provide value to my child
Going extra miles for health
Going extra miles for time
Going extra miles for financial abundance.
- david shen
Going extra miles
Going extra miles for my love ones
Going extra miles to make my dream a reality
- david shen
Going extra miles
I go extra miles
I go extra miles for my family
I go extra miles
I go extra miles
I go extra miles for my passoin
I go extra miles
- david shen
Parent
Monday, October 29, 2007
The world is round
It offers you the opportunities to reach the destination
The world is round
If one route is long, find a shorter route to reach the destination
The world is round
If walking is too slow, learn how to fly to reach the destination
The world is round
If you have the passion and use your talent appropriately, you’ll find a way to reach your destiny.
- david shen
Persistence
I try
I try again
I march toward the destiny
I try
I try
I try again
I march toward my goal
I try
I try
I try again
I march toward my happiness
I try
I try
I try again
I march toward my home
I try
I try
I try again
I march toward the eternity
- david shen
The happy day
I am home
I am home
I am at last coming home
I am happy
I am happy
I am happy to be home
This is the day
This is the day
This is the day I am home
I will be back
I will be back
I will be back proudly to come home
- david shen
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Shiny star
Go with your passion
Go with your talent
Be a shiny star
Provide value to yourself
Provide value to your love ones
Provide value to billion of others
Be a shiny star
Take charge of your belief
Take charge of your action
Take charge of your destiny
Be a shiny star
- david shen
self-education
- Jim Rohn
Friday, October 26, 2007
Have courage
Have courage to listen to my heart
Have courage to face
Have courage to face the reality
Have courage to choose
Have courage to choose the direction of my life
Have courage to know
Have courage to know my talent, my passion and my weakness
Have courage to imagine
Have courage to imagine the day I reach my goal
Have courage to discern
Have courage to discern the right and the wrong
Have courage to follow
Have courage to follow my plan every day
Have courage to reach
Have courage to reach my destiny
- david shen
This is my path
This is the path I move toward
This is the path I give it all
This is the path to my destination.
- David Shen
Faith
I have faith in the infinite
I have faith in my ability to give
- David shen
Adversity
In the face of adversity
I move forward with determination
In the face of adversity
I find opportunity
In the face of adversity
I look toward the sky
and say
This is the day I prove to my Dad
This is the day I show my child
This is the day I find a way
- David Shen
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Plan and deliver
I deliver
I deliver results to my Dad
I plan
I plan
I plan with master mind
I know
I know
I know we all have talents
I find
I find
I find talents and move forward
I focus
I focus
I focus on the destination
I arrive
I arrive
I arrive with happy tears in my eyes
- David Shen
Coming soon
I imagine
I imagine the day I reach my goal
I see family
I see family
I see family laughing around me
I smell food
I smell food
I smell delicious dinner next to me
I know one day
I know one day
I know this day is coming soon.
- David Shen
There is always a way
power to me
power to have million possibilities
I go this way
you go that way
we have million ways to reach the destination.
- David Shen
The day has come
This is the day
This is the day that I stand up
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way to the eternity
This is my life
This is my life
This is my life that I march toward my destiny
The day has come
The day has come
The day has come to fulfill my definite purpose in life.
- David Shen
Destiny
The ocean is deep blue
I am on my way to fulfill my destiny
The tree is bristling
The flower is smiling
I am on my way to achieve my eternity
I have faith in me
I have faith in my Dad
I have faith in the infinite
I thank you for this chance
I thank you for the talent
I thank you with all my heart.
- David Shen
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I have no doubt what so ever
Of Course I can
- David Shen
Give back
I believe in myself
I believe in my ability to give back to my Dad
I believe in him
I believe in his guardianship
I believe in him taking care of me in each stage of my life
This is the day
This is the day to laugh with tears in my eyes
This is the day I give back to my Dad
- David Shen
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Let it shine
desire
desire
Let the white heat of desire shine
Let it shine in me
Let it shine on this earth
Let it shine in this universe
I thank you for making it happen.
I thank you for giving me this opportunity
I thank you for this talent.
- David Shen
The universe within me
The flowers are blossoming
The sun is smiling
The creation of this universe starts with imagination
There is a universe in each of us
Let this universe fill with energy
fill with enthusiasm
fill with positive mental altitude
- David Shen
Desire
Desire
desire
desire
desire to create the best poetry
Desire
desire
desire
desire to get 10 million dollars
Desire
desire
desire
desire to provide my Dad with the best
Desire
desire
desire
desire to be on top of the world with my family
- David Shen
Faith
I have faith in my ability to provide time to my Dad
I have faith in my ability to provide positive mental altitude to my Dad
I have faith in my ability to provide a good health to my Dad
- David Shen
Wisdom from Charlie Munger
First, be unreliable. Do not faithfully do what you have engaged to do. If you will only master this one habit, you will more than counterbalance the combined effect of all your virtues, howsoever great. If you like being distrusted and excluded from the best human contribution and company, this prescription is for you. Master this one habit, and you will always play the role of the hare in the fable, except that instead of being outrun by one fine turtle, you will be outrun by hordes and hordes of mediocre turtles and even some mediocre turtles on crutches.
My second prescription for misery is to learn everything you possibly can from your own experience, minimizing what you learn vicariously from the good and bad experience of others, living and dead. This prescription is a sure-shot producer of misery and second-rate achievement. The other aspect of avoiding vicarious wisdom is the rule for not learning from the best work done before yours. The prescription is to become as non-educated as you reasonably can.
My third prescription to you for misery is to go down and stay down when you get your first, second or third severe reverse in the battle of life. Because there is so much adversity out there, even for the lucky and wise, this will guarantee that, in due course, you will be permanently mired in misery. Ignore at all cost the lesson contained in the accurate epitaph written for himself by Epictetus: "Here lie Epictetus, a slave, maimed in body, the ultimate in poverty, and favored by the gods."
My final prescription to you for a life of fuzzy thinking and infelicity is to ignore a story they told me when I was very young about a rustic who said, "I wish I knew where I was going to die, and then I'd never go there."
Good son
I am a good son
I am a good son
I provide time, money, positive mental altitude and health to my parents.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Chance to be great
This is the chance to be great
This is the chance to be great
The chance to be great is now, now, now.
- David Shen
baseball
This technique apply to our life as well. In life, I tend to have the tendency to swing at a lot of balls. I believe that once I identify my passion and talents, I'll swing at the ball with all might power. It's crucial.
Home run
I wait
I wait
I wait
I hit the ball with all I got.
David Shen
Monday, October 22, 2007
I am the chosen one
I am the one who delivers the result to me and for my Dad
I am the one
I am the one who provide value for million of others
I am the one
I am the one who have time, money and positive mental altitude for my family.
- David Shen
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can deliver the result for my Dad
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can take care of my son, my wife and take good care of my parents
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can provide time to my son, my wife and my parents
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can figure out my talents and use it to provide time, money, positivity and happiness for my love ones.
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can give back to my parents
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can
I know I can do it.
- David Shen
Add Value
Unrelentless pursuit of talent
Unrelentless pursuit of passion
Unrelentless pursuit of excellence
- becoming better
- having a good habit (change a little every day - brush teeth, wash face ..)
- experiment at least one thing every day
The outcome is
Infinite amount of time with love ones
Infinite amount of money to provide to love ones
Infinite amount of positivity and happiness
Infinite amount of health because of all of the above.
- David Shen
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Friday, October 19, 2007
Action
- David Shen
Thursday, October 18, 2007
On this earth
I am here to give my talents to others. (provide value to others)
I am here for my love ones. (provide value to my family)
Every day and every moment,
I ask myself how I can use my interest and talent to help 1 thousand, 1 million and 1 billion people
I ask myself how I can a billion dollars and contribute to Bill Gates foundation
One day,
I will stand on the mountain top, look down at Golden Gate Bridge with tears in my eyes and says, I have fulfilled my mission. I give thanks to the the infinite one above.
This day is coming soon.
- David Shen
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Forward march
move forward
launch, launch, launch
launch the airforce
the direction is set
the action is taken
move forward with all mighty force
united we go
- David Shen
My destiny
I will be back
I will be back with money
I will be back
I will be back
I will be back with time
I will be back
I will be back
I will be back with happiness
I will be back
I will be back
I will be back to stand tall.
- David Shen
Unite
to unite
to stand up
to provide value for my Dad
united we stand
to move forward with infinite speed
to move forward with infinite force
to move forward with infinite creativity
to move forward with infinite talent
to move forward like the Lord of the Ring
to move forward with BONE, BONE, BONE. (The footstep sound of the army marching.)
- David Shen
Achieve
come out
spread wing and fly high
together we are
the force
to be reckon,
together we do
great things.
- David Shen
Focus
focus on what you like
focus, focus
focus on what you're good at
focus, focus
focus with all your might
focus, foucs
focus to provide
- David Shen
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Observation
I observe my thoughts and entertain only those that empower me. I create the exact level of my positive mental altitude!
I observe my thoughts and entertain only those that empower me. I create the exact level of my health.
I observe my thoughts and entertain only those that empower me. I create the exact level of my relationship.
power, power, power (power to me)
time, time, time (time with family)
finance, finance, finance, (abundant finance)
health, health,health (abundant health)
positivity, positivity, positivity (abundant positive mental altitude)
- David Shen
Monday, October 15, 2007
Saturday, October 13, 2007
I am lucky
Friday, October 12, 2007
Responsible
What can I experiment today so I can bring the best value to my family?
The values are positive mental altitude, health, abundant time to be with family and financial abundance.
Strength, strength, strength
Experiment, experiment, experiment
Win, win, win
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Giving and Receiving
- Jim Rohn
Take the whole ocean, give the whole ocean.
- David Shen
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Both
How can I PROVIDE immense value to my child and GIVE back to my parents?
How can I GET a better job and HAVE time to work on my hobby?
How can I HAVE time with my family, HAVE a better job and HAVE time to work on my hobby?
- David Shen
Monday, October 8, 2007
Fun
Fun to play with the baby
Fun, fun, fun
Fun to hug the baby
Fun, fun, fun
Fun to have a happy family
- David Shen
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Behind the communication
My father has always recommended us to have a stable job and have a stable life. He on the other hand always go for the adventures including move to 2 different countries in his life time. It seems that his action and his talk are 2 completely different story.
Recently, I read the book, frogs into princes. I realize that action belongs to the subconscious territory while talk sometimes belong to the conscious territory. My wife was joking that both my sister and I are influenced by his talk rather than by his action. Oh, my wife wasn't kidding about it.
As I grow older, I realize that if I ever want to give back to my parents. I better observe their need based on the action so I can give back with full confidence that I give my best shot.
The funny thing is that I always thought that it's weird that my father isn't consistent between his talking and his action. I always thought that everyone should be consistent between their talking and their action. I was wrong because I wasn't consistent myself, too.
Why do I say that? My wife ask me that if our child grow up and he wants to go a career that it's easy to get a job such as art, what will I do? I told her that as long as the child shows the talent and I would agree with it. When I look back at my history, I sometimes just do it without knowing whether I have the talents for it. I have to admit that my talking and my action sometimes are different.
In Anthony Robbin's tape, he mentioned that it's better to be congruent between the talk and the action. I totally agree. He believe that it gives power to yourself. I want to gain these powers to I can provide immense value to my parents, my wife and my child.
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Time is vital
- David Shen
Friday, October 5, 2007
Give
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Response
The idea is from both Tony Robbins and NLP.
All response is utilizable.
There's no particular good or bad response.
Any response is a good response when it's utilized, and it's the next step in the process of change.
The response includes human emotion, disappointment, anger and frustration.
The response includes health and financial wealth.
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Touch down
Here I come
Go through mountain and river
Reach the castle with infinite fun
- David Shen
Going back to the basic
I will go back to what I believe I am talented at and start to create an idea around it. Going back and start reading 2 books. I appreciate what my subconscious are telling me and I plan to work together consciously and subconsciously to give back to my parents. Give me the courage, tenacity and determination to achieve this goal.
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Thank you
Thank you for giving me a wonderful wife.
Thank you for giving me a wonderful son.
Thank you for giving me a wonderful sister.
I'm grateful for what I have. I move forward with honor.
- David Shen
Monday, October 1, 2007
A new day
I'll use each moment as if it's the most precious and most important moment in my life.
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Time is short
I know that if I ever want to give back to my parents, I have to act fast now. Time is the essence. How can I use my talents to give to million of others and at the same time give back to my love ones?
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Time
How can I provide immense value for 10 million people in 1 month?
I will need to create something from scratch that matches all my spots (talents).
"I'm no genious. I'm smart in spots and I stay around those spots"
- Thomas Watson Sr.
Friday, September 28, 2007
Message Board
This is incredible because I realize that one of my talents is to write a short paragraph that can sometimes make people jump or persuade others. I can also use MSN Live Messenger and help to resolve issues for others. It's one of my talent and I intend to use it to provide immense values for my love ones. How am I going to do it?
Anyone know the kinds of career that help to resolve people's issues on line with either the message board or MSN live messenger? I know that I have the incredible ability to convince others online and I intend to use it to provide immense values for my love ones and million of people.
Give me the opportunity and I'll make it shine.
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Goal
In the tape, it points out the importance of focus on the goal. Each morning, read the goal statement. I believe in it. Each morning, I'll start reading the mission of my life: providing immense value for my love ones and 10 million others. Use talent, talent and talent to fulfill my goal.
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Warren's and Charles's quote
- Warren Buffett
"If you have competence, you pretty much know its boundaries already. To ask the question [of whether you are past the boundary] is to answer it".
- Charles Munger (Warren Buffett's partner)
"I'm no genius. I'm smart in spots, and I stay around those spots."
- Thomas Watson Sr.
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How do I add values to my love ones today?
I add immense value to my love ones by knowing my spots and stay around those spots.
pattern vs. knowledge
a. your extensive knowledge
b. your personality matches the interviewer
After this many interviews, I'll start to say (b). In the interview, if the personality matches, the interviewer will always say, "he/she can do it". If the personality doesn't match, the interviewer will always give an excuses, "oh, he/she is too sharp for this job position. This job position requires more human interaction skill." You might be wondering why I even bring up this topic. Well, I have interviewed for 6 job positions. The previous 5 job positions has turned me down. On the 6th job position, the personality seems to click and I got the job. I know, I know. Many of you will say that my knowledge for the 6th job interview matches what the interviewer wants. Well, I apply for similar positions for all 6 jobs.
Well adios.
Moving forward with honor
Monday, September 24, 2007
Hug my child
How can I add value for my love ones today and at this moment?
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Know myself
Getting back to my passion and talent.
I have been reading turning frog into a princess for 2 months ago. Yesterday, I decided to read this book again. Why do I want to read it? This book has helped me tremendously in communicating with both people and myself.
When I have a self talk, sometimes I like to fight with myself. This is not beneficial at all. When 2 voices fight, the conflict within myself seems to get bigger. I would like to try to say thank you to my inner voice because each voice provide me the benefit. I intend to do 2 things. I would like to say thank you to them. Write it down on those 2 voices. I ask myself how can I keep both benefits?
Friday, September 21, 2007
Both
How can I have both? My goal is to have immense time with my family, give back to my parents and have abundant finance so I can accomplish all if the above. Everyday I'll ask me the question.
How can I have enormous amount of time with my family, give back to my parents, have an abundant finance, to do what I love to do and do it well, have good health, have positive mental altitude and have fun doing it?
What can I do today, this moment that will add immense value to my family?
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Am I?
Am I adding value to my love ones with my habit?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the direction that I am going?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the health that I have?
Am I adding value to my love ones with my thinking?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of my talent?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of my time?
Am I adding value to my love ones with the use of the money?
I am willing to do anything and everything to add immense value for my love ones.
- David Shen
smile
value value value
I provide immense value to my love ones
power power power
I use all the power in the world for my love ones
move move move
I move forward with lightning speed
give give give
I give my talents to billion of others
smile smile smile
I smile with big grin to accomplish all of the above
- David Shen
I know I can
I add immense value to my love ones by knowing that I add value in each action that I take.
I add immense value to my love ones by knowing that today will give me an opportunity to give back to my parents and to provide a better environment for both my wife and child.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
happy
run to pa pa
smile child smile
calling Dad Dad
give me a big Teddy bear hug,
happy happy here I come.
- David Shen
Happy
run to pa pa
smile child smile
calling Dad Dad
give me a big Teddy bear hug,
happy happy here I come.
- David Shen
Talent
I'll give you all I got,
going forward with all my might,
provide value for my love ones.
- David Shen
Five Steps to Self-Confidence
1. I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose in life; therefore, I demand of myself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment, and I here and now promise to render such action.
2. I realize the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves in outward, physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality; therefore, I will concentrate my thoughts for thirty minutes daily, upon the task of thinking of the person I intend to become, thereby creating in my mind a clear mental picture.
3. I know through the principle of autosuggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the object back of it; therefore, I will devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the development of self-confidence.
4. I have clearly written down a description of my definite chief aim in life, and I will never stop trying, until I shall have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.
5. I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure unless built upon truth and justice; there-fore I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. I will succeed by attracting to myself the forces I wish to use, and the cooperation of other people. I will induce others to serve me, because of my willingness to serve others. I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism by developing love for all humanity, because I know that negative attitude toward others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me because I will believe in them and in myself. I will sign my name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day, with full faith that it will gradually influence my thoughts and actions so that I will become a self-reliant, and successful person.
Smile
Category
In life, there are different ways of providing immense result to others. The quickest way to provide an immense result to others is to find the category that I am the 1st in. In college, Bill Gates gives up on math because he realize that he's not the 1st in math. The category that I am 1st in is my talent. I can do only 20% of effort and get 4000% result. I can use this talent to help billion of others.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Family
What can I experiment today that can add immense value to my love ones today?
Take risk.
Monday, September 17, 2007
Ability
Every day I add immense value to my love ones and billion of others.
I see the strength in each person and I admire their strength.I see the strength in my love ones and I intend to excel their strength 10 million times.In order to provide immense value to my loves ones, I will do what ever it takes to excel my talent to 1 billion times. What can I do today to help me achieve this goal? What can I do today to add immense value to my love ones?
To my love ones:
I want to do what ever it takes to add immense value. Every times when I hug my baby I know that I have the courage to fly with unlimited possibility. With God's permission and blessing, I intend to do what ever it takes to strengthen my ability. With my unlimited ability, I can provide immense value to my love ones and billion of others. I intend to do what ever it takes to fulfill my promise to add immense value to my love ones. Power, power, power, Ability, ability, ability, Experiment, experiment, experiment. I promise to do what ever it takes to add value to my love ones.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Value
I add value to my love ones by being a superman. I will be able to do anything and everything for my love ones. I would like to be able to calm down my child to go to sleep but at the same time I will be able to fight like a lion for my love ones. I can even become diplomatic. This is a goal that I am going to move forward to.
I always ask myself:
How can I add immense value to my love ones?
How can I have time, have a good health, have a positive mental altitude and have abundance finance so I can always spend time with good health, move forward with honor and help others with love for my dear love ones.
I do WEIT(what ever it takes) to reach this goal. Give me POWER, POWER, POWER.
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Experimentation
I add immense value to my love ones by experimenting. When I become bigger, better and add values to billion of people, I also add values to my love ones.
I run, I walk, I cry, I laugh
I add value to my love ones.
I move forward with infinite power
I add value to my love ones.
- David Shen
Friday, September 14, 2007
Hair cut
I am able to add immense value to my love ones by get a hair cut before the interview. It might sound funny at a time but it's true. Having a hair cut will accomplish 2 purposes. The 1st purpose is that I look visually better having a hair cut. The interviewer also like a person with a good professional hair cut. The 2nd purpose is that it boost my self confidence. After I look at myself in the mirror with a professional haircut, I feel more confident. Before the hair cut, I tend to have a lot of feeling. Having a lot of feeling is good for helping others and poetry writing; however, it's not good for any business meeting including the interview. In any kinds of business meeting, it's preferable to have a sharp eyes, to analyze the situation in the room and to communicate to people in the room with confidence. Having a hair cut will definitely help to accomplish this particular task.
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my dear child,
It seems a bit strange but I have to emphasize on the behavior. Brushing teeth, washing face and having hair cut regularly. It changes the emotion at the moment and helps to see things more clearly. This kinds of little changes helps to improve my life. It gives me a positive mental altitude. I would like to pass this knowledge to you.
Love
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Love for my family
I add value to my love ones by moving forward with honor.
How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by spending time with my love one, having a good health, having a positive mental altitude and having financial abundance.
How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by doing what I love doing and do it really well.
How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love one by looking at the photos and listen to their sound and asks myself the question.
How do I add value to my love ones?
I add value to my love ones by hugging my loves ones and ask myself the best way to accomplish all of the goal above.
- David Shen
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Baby fun
Play with mommy fun, fun, fun
Give, give milk to me
I just like to having fun
- David Shen
Baby
Calling dad dad with open arm
Sleeping like a teddy bear
A little baby is really fun.
- David Shen
Grateful
Having a family is really fun,
Thank you thank you for all I got,
Once a year anniversary is a lot of fun.
- David Shen
Strong
I am thankful to have a wife who is able to protect my family. I am thanksful that she knows the thinking pattern of a particular group of people.
I intend to be the BIGGEST and STRONGEST person in the world. I am going to do what ever it takes to know and understand this particular group of people. These group of people belong to the creative thinking pattern with high intonation and have a big facial expression.
This is the time to protect my love ones. I want to know the exact thinking pattern so I am able to protect my love ones and myself.
Dad, my dear wife and my dear child, give me the power to protect the family, to provide the immense value for my love ones, to give time, health, positive mental altitude and abundant finance for my love ones.
Dad, when I were young, you were stand strong for the family, provide the abundant finance and time for the family. I promise that I will do the same for my family. In God's name, I promise.
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Child
Going forward with all my might,
Stand strong with eagle eye,
I am here for my child.
- David Shen
Life
I bring value to my love ones
Love, love, love
I love my child with infinite fun
Grateful, grateful, grateful
I am grateful to what I have
Run, run, run
I run to tomorrow with open arm.
- David Shen
Experiment
I add immense value for my love ones by experimenting, experimenting and experimenting. I jump over the safety line and walk for a 100 feet. It's a new universe out there. There are fresh flowers, beautiful houses, a green golf course and the English windmill. Sitting on the rock and looking over this incredible world, I am totally glad and happy.
Monday, September 10, 2007
The influence
I didn't realize this at first but realize that I am going to think about how I am going to present both my facial expression and my body language to my child. I want to know what facial expression and body language would benefit this child dramatically.
I have never realize that facial expression can give my child the excitement to move forward with honor. This is a tool that I would like to use it wisely.
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Target, Target, Target
I focus on providing the health, the time, the positive mental altitude and abundant finance. Each of the these criteria require focus, focus and focus.
Every time when I have a negative thought, I instantly realized that my child is looking at me and learns from me. This is a LOSE LOSE situation. If it only happens to myself, I don't really mind. However, if the negative thought impacts my child, I WON'T ALLOW my negative thought impact my child mentally, health and financially.
The negative thought also impacts my action. I plan to give back to my parents. If the negative thought impacts my action which impacts the result, there's no room in myself to have this negative feeling.
I know exactly what I need to do to provide value for my family. I will move forward with speed and accuracy.
Saturday, September 8, 2007
Value, value, value
How can I add immense value to my love ones today, tomorrow and the future?
The best way to add value for my love one is doing what I love to do, do it well, spend an abundant time with them, have a good health, have a positive mental altitude and have a financial abundance.
What is the best way to achieve it? The best way to achieve it is to
1. Read my mission statement twice a day
2. Follow my talent
3. Experiment 6 times by the end of the year
4. Move forward with honor
May God bless my goal and give me the courage and blessing to move forward with honor.
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Bonding
I never understand the psychology of bonding. I start to understand that the most important factor is time. The more time I spend with the baby, the better the relationship is going to be.
Here is the question for myself today?
1. How can I add values for my love ones?
2. How can I have immense time for my love ones, to do what I love to do and do it well, provide financial abundance for my family and have a positive mental altitude?
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Hero
Warren Buffet - He's very honest. He has fun doing what he love to do and he does it well. He contribute 37 billion dollars to Gates foundation.
Bill Gates - He has a vision and he makes it happen. He contribute billions of dollars to help the needy.
Steve Jobs - He loves to make beautiful object e.g. animation, iPod, iPhone and Apple Macintosh.
Dad - He always protect our family. He gave us the time, the financial abundance and the confidence for the entire family to move forward.
Each of them use their talents (instinct) to the best of their ability. They not only makes themself happy but in the process contribute to the human kinds. I would like to be one of them in the near future.
Monday, September 3, 2007
Follow your instinct
I was thinking yesterday about Bill Gates and Steve Jobs. What do they have in common? They both follow their instinct. Steve Jobs follow his instinct by designing the beautiful object includes iPhone, iPod, animation and Apple Macintosh. Bill Gates follow his instinct by creating a great software called Windows and put the software in every computer.
I believe each of us know exactly what our instincts are . A lot of times, we tend to ignore our instinct and do something that we don't particularly enjoy. It might be ok in the short run. In the long run, it's a lose and lose situation. We lose our heart and become pessimistic. Our children lose because our action impacts their thinking. In order to provide infinite values to our love ones and billion of others, follow your instinct is the only way to go.
Habit
Why do I say that? If you wash your face and brush your hair, you will soon realize that your thinking pattern is completely change after doing it. If I am in a depressed mode, I will be instantly go into a positive mode. If I am a bit sleepy and I need to go to a meeting, washing my face would definitely give me an edge in the meeting.
Warren Buffet says the following:
“Chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.”
I never exactly understand what he means until yesterday. Having a positive habit will give me power in myself and my family. I believe in it.
Sunday, September 2, 2007
Criteria to add values
Friday, August 31, 2007
My promise to my love ones.
I promise to provide the best value to you. I promise to give you the time, the health, mentally big and strong and abundant financial so we can have abundant time together.
Here are the steps that I am going to achieve it.
1. Do 6 experiments(projects) by the end of this year.
2. Always ask myself on what each project does for my family. The project will give me an opportunity to be with my love ones. I thank God for giving me a chance to work on each project so I'll have an opportunity to give all my energy to be with my love ones.
With God's blessing and approval, I intend to do what ever it takes to be with my love ones.
Food for thought
I modeled after Bill Gates yesterday. What did I do exactly? Well, I ate both hamburger and drank chocolate milkshake. Hamburger provides the ingredient for vision and chocolate milkshake provide the ingredient for communication. It might seem weird yet it's true.
Have you ever gone out with a friend at lunch time and you ordered exactly what he orders? You soon realized that you are on the same thinking pattern. Your communication flows really well and you have a good time. Here is the experiment that I recommend. Go out with some one that you totally don't understand. Order exactly the same food and drink that he's ordering. My bet is that you'll start to have a better understanding of this person and his behavior. It might seem a bit strange but I bet it's going to work.
A note of caution. If you emphasize on eating too much hamburger or chocolate milkshake, it might be bad for your health. It's important to eat vegetables, fruit, meat, potato and green bean.
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Bill Gates
I was reading the book, hard drive, last night. One of his strength that amazes me is the ability to choose the right person on the job based on performance without relationship attachment. I find this ability incredible because I would have a hard time doing that. One of his good friend has worked for his company for several years as a manager. When the company is small, his friend was able to do a wonderful job. However, when the company becomes bigger, his friend is no longer able to handle the job load and the task that demands for a big company. His friend also senses that himself is no longer the right person for this job so he quits and moves on. I look around at all my companies that I work for and I have never seen the situation above.
I realize that Bill Gates has this amazing ability to put honesty first and relationship second. He's very honest to himself and others that performance is the first priority in his company. He seems to be consistent through out his career.
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Friends
What kinds of people do you like most? Have you ever thought about it? Both your mom and I would like you to give some thought about it.
Do you like their belief? Do you like their habit? Do you like their intonation? Do you like their feeling? Do you like their vision? If you have a hero, what specifically do you like about them?
It think it's critical to know these important factors. Once you analyze a bit about them, you have a deeper understanding of your friends. You will be able to connect with them at a deeper level. You know their strength and you walk around their weakness. It would bring you happiness to yourself. On the other hand, if you disagree with his/her belief or their bad habits seems to have negative influence on you, you might want to reconsider about this friend. If you are bigger than them mentally and you think it's worth a shot, you can even try to persuade them to change to a new belief or a new habit. If you're not able to change their belief/habit, I recommend you to run and keep a good distance from this person. You're very likely to be impacted by his belief or habit if you are not able to influence him.
I also recommend you to have a notepad so you can write down your thought. Trust your instinct. Sometimes when I look at a person and I don't like them. I don't know why. However, if those people continue to talk to me for a period of time, my thinking pattern seems to change and I start to like them. A few years later, I look down at my note about my thought when I first meet those people, I am amazed at the accuracy of my instinct.
Love
Daddy
Monday, August 27, 2007
The gift to others
Deep down in our soul, we have a special gift that we can make a difference that we can touch other people in a special way. We can make a world a better place.
My goal:
My goal in life is to focus on the precious God's given talent and use it to provide immense value to my love ones and billion of others.
move forward with honor
- Warren Buffet
I thank God for what I have, 2 terrific parents, a loving wife and a wonderful son. I move forward with what I have. I do the best with what I have. I am doing this not only for myself but my love ones.
- David shen
Model after my hero
Here are the steps to achieve it.
Step 1: Write down questions before looking at them. These question includes family, friends, happiness, health, success and financial abundance.
1. What's his/her strength that you want to model after?
2. Does he/she tip dancing to work everyday?
3. Does he/she love his/her family and friends?
4. Does his/her family and friends love him/her?
5. Is he/she happy with his/her career?
6. Does he/she have financial abundance?
The goal is to focus on strength. At the same time, keep in mind that I want a balance life. Each hero has a strength that I can model after.
I would like to model after Warren Buffet and Bill Gates because they donate to billion of others.
I would like to model after Warren Buffet because of his honesty to himself and to others.
I would like to model after Bill Gates because of he has a vision and he makes his vision happen.
I would like to model after Steve because of his ability to create beautiful animation and objects.
Friday, August 24, 2007
Happiness
I get to do what I like to do every single day of the year.
I get to do with people I like.
- Warren Buffet
The key point is you got to enjoy what you do every day.
- Bill Gates
Invisible inner beauty
Strenght, strength and strengh
My other goal is to know 100 things that give me pleasure. It includes the music, Queen, Yo-yo and looking at people's face. I intend to put down 1 more item that give me the pleasure by the end of today.
Well, wish me best luck.
8/24/2007 5:00pm pacific time
Having a photo of my whole family in my wallet would give me incredible happiness and calm to move forward.
Warren Buffet and Bill Gates
Well, they both donate billions of dollar to help others. I admire them immensely because of their unselfish character.
What else do they have in common?
They both use their talent and passion to provide immense values not only to themselves to billions of others. According to Warren Buffet, he compares people to a motor. Some people put in 400 horse power yet only produce 100 horse power. He would prefer people who put in 100 horse power and produce 200 horse power consistently.
I didn't understand at first. My wife helps to clear my thoughts. My wife tells me that it's very similar to 80/20 rules. Some people spend 80% of energy yet produce only 20% of the result. Some people spend 20% of energy and they produce 80% of the result. In life, my goal is to spend 40% of the energy and produce 4000% of the result. You might think it's funny. How can you only use 40% of your energy to produce 4000% of the result.
I believe it all comes down to instinct. When I was young, I thought if I push myself hard enough and do what they do, I can get to the level of my heros including Bill Gates and Warren Buffet. As I get older, I understand that each person has talents in different area. Warren Buffet said that if he does what Bill Gates does, he can only survive for 10 minutes.
My life purpose is to provide immense values to my love ones and others. In order to do it, I got to follow my instinct (talent). I also plan to use this talent consistently for the rest of 60 years. This is my goal. I intend to honor this goal.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Daily Bread
1. I know that I have the ability to achieve the object of my definite purpose in life; therefore, I demand of myself persistent, continuous action toward its attainment, and I here and now promise to render such an action.
Action and Value
I can add immense values to my love ones if I am BIG and STRONG.
How can I become BIGGER and STRONGER today?
How can I become the BIGGEST man on this earth at the END of TODAY?
Is cheap people usually selfish?
The 1st person got into my mind is Warren Buffet at his younger age. I like Warren Buffet and I think that he's the most honest and generous people in the whole universe. I read his biography. When he was young, I got a sense that he's cheap. He doesn't spend any money that's necessary because he knows that each penny he spent at younger age would worth 10, 20 and 30 times in the future.
The thing that bothers me a bit is he ask his son to pay rent for the farm. I am a person who focus on relationship. I don't quite understand that Warren Buffet asks the son to pay rent for the farm. I think this is the wrong thing to do.
My wife has a completely different opinion. She told me that Warren Buffet has an education fund for each child. He knows what's important for this child. She also told me that if the son doesn't pay rent for the farm, the son might not have the pressure to do an excellent job as a farmer if his Daddy pays rent for him. His son might stay in the same place for 10 years doing a lousy job as a farmer. I see my wife's point clearly and I agree with her somewhat. I know if my father pays everything for me, I will tend to be lay back, too.
I starts to understand what money is. Money is an object that measure our progress. When I am better, bigger, focus and driven, money will be attracted to me. When I am negative, guilty and lazy, money will get away from me. I can always tell by my own feeling that I am moving in a right direction and doing what I love to do and do it well. Money is simply just an important and objective instrument that tells me where I am.
The path to fulfillment
The path to fulfillment is to focus on the beacon(goal). Have 100 things that give me the pleasure ready for me. Whenever I feel a downward thought appearing in my mind, I'll just play with one item. The things that gave me a pleasure can be a music or it can be a yo-yo. This is my 1st step to the path to fulfillment.
My second step to fulfillment to have a good quote around me. I have studied the quote from both Warren Buffet and Jim Rohn. It seems that I like Jim Rohn's quote in the evening time and I like Warren Buffet's quote in the early morning. ok. I'll have both Jim Rohn and Warren Buffet's quotes with me.
My 3rd step to fulfillment is to provide the best environment for my love ones. I know that I would be happy if I can provide the best environment for my love ones. The environment can be internal and it can be external. Usually, when you talk about the environment, you talk about give a loving family and be able to provide education fees for college. I intend to do more than that. I want to know what makes my child ticks. The 1st thing that I realize is that Winnie the Pooh CD wakes my child and it gives him the independence. I would like to do a little bit research to see what kinds of visual tools and feeling give him the advantage. If you are not familiar with NLP, you might want to read a bit. Just search google. :)
The visual tool that I like to provide to my child is quite simple. I would like to put pictures on the wall. It can be a picture that contains scenery or a picture that contains people. I find it fascinating that people who are interested in scenery picture doesn't interested in people picture. People who are interested in people picture aren't interested in scenery picture.
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Give your talent
- Jim Rohn
Complex human behavior
You might look for a clue and the clue is unusually quite obvious.
You just need to be like Sherlock Home: pay attention on details.
I never thought that I pay attention to detail in my entire life but it just happens. Yesterday, we have a meeting in our company. My manger is going to retire. I like him and I get a bit emotional about his leaving. In the meeting, his manager also says something about how valuable he is in providing value to the company. I look at her once, twice and three times and I suddenly realize that she doesn't feel anything about his retirement. This is just part of the business. Why do I say that? Well, I look at her shoes and her body language.
It seems strange to me that you can tell a person by the shoes he/she wear. I have never imagine that in my whole life but it just happens. I realize that if a person wearing tennis shoes, he/she most likely have more feeling than wearing the other kinds of shoes. My second line manger wore another kind of shoes and that give me immense clue that she just make a presentation to make it look good. She doesn't have any feeling for my manger at all who is going to retire. It seems strange to me that they work together for 7 years and she thought this is just a business. Anyone who works 7 years for me, I'll like this person a lot and will one way or the other show my appreciation.
Oh, one other clue is she put her fists on top of the other nonstop while she does the presentation. It seems weird to me that she does this while talking. I usually put my fist on top of each other when I am quite happy about an event. I sense that the 2nd line manger doesn't like my 1st line manger. It's strange to me that after 7 years of working together, they still don't like each other.
I guess that I don't understand the human nature as well as I do. I always thought that people are like me full of compassion. I don't dare to say it any more. It seems people are more complicated than I thought originally especially people work in the business world.
Well live and learn.
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
A distant house
When I wake up, the house seems to be a bit different. I felt a bit chill. I look around and the house seems to be old. I don't see people around. I open the kitchen door and goes to the outside. It is still a big house yet I suddenly feel that something isn't right because I don't hear too much people around it. It's too quite. I walk past the fence from the other side to the front side. I walk slowly and passed the front side to the entrance that I entered the 1st time. I slowly open the door. I saw a lady with a black face sitting in the arm chair. I talked to her.Where is my Dad and my uncle? She reply. Last time that you were here is 3 years ago. Both of your parents passed away. I stare at her blankly and I woke up.
Monday, August 20, 2007
Give
- David Shen
The path to happiness
The fastest way to achieve the goal is to focus, focus and focus on the talent and passion. To move forward with incredible speed and incredible positivity. It might sound like a cliche. I was reading the most popular blogger's, Steve Job, profile. He said the following: I love beautiful objects. I love creating them. Warren Buffet says the following: To do what you love to do and do it really well. Bill Gates just do it. I believe one of his goal to make PC every where and look at what he has done today.
My goal is to provide immense value to my love ones and billion of others. I would like to provide the best environment both externally and internally. Every time when I receive a new talent and a new tool, I plan to say "thank you God for giving me this incredible power. I'll use it to provide immense values for my love ones".
Sunday, August 19, 2007
My watch and Warren Buffet
I have worn this watch for a long time. I never realize it but I feel something is missing when the watch finally retired. It has the sentimental value. This watch is always with me during the past 10 precious year of my life time. Our life is like candle in the wind, it's so short. Even if I live up to 110 years old, I still can feel the time passed me by quickly especially in good times. My goal in life is to provide immense value for my love ones and other billion of people.
In order to provide immense value, I must be strong and big. I mean mentally and physically strong and I plan to be the biggest man on this earth. How do I do it? I plan to use material. You might think it's funny. How can you use material to help you achieve your goal? Well, everything comes down to your emotion? How strong do you feel about accomplish your goal? Are you discipline enough to just do it every day and every seconds for the rest of your life to do what ever it takes to achieve your goal? I feel very strong about my goal. Am I discipline enough just do it every day? I hope I am. I am doing this not for myself but for my love ones. Am I willing to do it for the rest of my life? Well, I am willing to do it to for the rest of my life if it provide immense value for my love ones. There is also a time issue. I would like to accomplish in a shortest time because it has the time factors.
Well, discipline is easy to say but difficult to do. I tell myself that I need to exercise but I only exercise for a few days then not doing it any more. I ask a friend to see if he wants to exercise with me . This is one way to accomplish my goal. Let a friend know and ask for his involvement.
The other tools to accomplish discipline is a bit weird; however, it give immense result. It's fun and it just works. You might be asking what is it? Let me give a hint. If you look at Warren Buffet closely in the annual stockholder meeting. You'll see something that you have never seen before. Warren Buffet has a tool and it definitely helps him in having fun playing with the number and picking the right company. If you are interested in this particular tool, please put down your comment and send me an email. I would send you the name of the tool. Remember, a tool makes it fun.
Friday, August 17, 2007
Environment
As a parent, I am determine to provide the best environment for my child. I observe his daily routine and try to figure out what give him an edge. I realize when he hear Winnie-The-Pooh, he starts to yi yi ya ya and become more self assure and independent. (note: each child has a different favorite.) My nephew likes the bible song. I am also determine to provide my self with the best environment. I will figure out what music and pictures will give me an edge. My goal is to understand the 5 elements that makes me stronger. The 5 elements consists of visual tool, hearing tool, feeling tool, smelling tool and tasting tool.
Thursday, August 16, 2007
All You Can Be
Have you ever want to be able to change your personality in a second? Sometimes you can be mellow with your normal personality. When the tough time comes in, your other personality with courage steps in and give you the boost that you need to get it done. Some people may say that stays with your normal personality and just find your passion and talent and you will be happy. That might be true. My only question to this statement is how many people find the passion and talent that matches with their career. In a world with infinite possibility, it seems that only a few percentage of people actually find out their passion and talent. They did really well, too. Before you find your passion and talent, I recommend you to find out other parts of yourself that you haven't identified. You do it by being an observant copycat. By being an observant copycat, you will realize that each person is immensely different. After you copy other's pattern, you start to understand other's strength and knows that it's also part of you. This is another personality that you seldom touch. You also start to appreciate your normal self/personality. It has strength that is different from the personality that you copy from others. Life is a mystery. It contains roads to happiness, roads to success, roads to wealth, roads to give to others. By finding out all your strength (your normal self and others), you would have more opportunity in this wonderful yet complex world. I wish you the best of luck in experimenting this wonderful Wizard of Oz as we called, EARTH. Adios.
- David Shen